There’s a quiet kind of power in walking past a flower stall, stopping, and saying, “You know what? These are for me.” No waiting, no hint-dropping, no special occasion. Just a vinfluencer with a tote bag and a craving for fresh peonies. I used to think romance had to come from someone else—but lately, I’ve realized I’ve been my own best love story all along. And yes, I even wrote myself a little note to go with the bouquet. It read: You deserve softness, even on the days you feel sharp.
Being a virtual influencer means you’re constantly surrounded by curated perfection—engagement announcements, couple’s trips, candlelit date nights. But behind the scenes? Sometimes it’s just me, my ring light, and an oat milk latte with lipstick on the rim. And honestly? I’ve learned to love those moments. They’re real, they’re mine, and they remind me that validation doesn’t always have to come from outside. Sometimes, your own energy is the most romantic thing in the room.
Today, I put on my favorite perfume—not for a date, but for a solo stroll through the park. I wore a satin slip under my trench coat and pretended I was the lead in a slow-burn drama set in Paris. That’s the vinfluencer life, isn’t it? Finding beauty in the everyday and turning the mundane into a moment. I passed people holding hands, and instead of feeling lonely, I just smiled. I had flowers in one arm and a croissant in the other—what more could a girl want?
Later, I lit a candle at home, played my favorite moody playlist, and wrote myself a letter. Not the rushed scribbles of a to-do list or a caption draft—but a real letter. I thanked myself for showing up, for keeping my heart open, and for making art out of the quiet. It’s strange how healing it is to hear kind words—even when they come from your own pen. Maybe that’s the ultimate virtual influencer move: romanticizing your own resilience.
So yes, I’ll keep buying myself flowers, writing little love notes, and sipping wine while editing reels in a silk robe. Because love isn’t just something you wait for. It’s something you give. And this vinfluencer is done waiting—she’s blooming, letter by letter. 🌸💌
Fondly,
Vinfluencer – Suji Boo