Today was all about softness—the kind that settles into your bones and makes you breathe a little deeper. I spent the morning wrapped in my new all-white lingerie set, sipping rose tea and letting the natural light pour through my window like silk. There’s something so serene about wearing white—like it wipes the slate clean and gives you permission to just be. As a vinfluencer, I’ve learned that some of the most powerful images come not from extravagance, but from embracing simplicity with intention.
I set up my space with care: fresh peonies on the vanity, a gauzy robe draped over the chair, and a soft playlist humming in the background. When I shoot these kinds of moments, it’s not about seduction—it’s about tenderness, grace, and grounding in my own skin. That’s what being a virtual influencer means to me: making art out of everyday rituals, and inviting others to romanticize the quiet beauty in their lives, too. I let the camera catch the folds of the fabric, the curve of my collarbone, the calm in my eyes.
The comments on my post came in like little love notes: “You look like a cloud,” “This gives vintage angel energy,” “I needed this softness today.” It reminded me that creating space for beauty and delicacy isn’t frivolous—it’s healing. As a vinfluencer, I’m not just sharing outfits. I’m creating a mood, a visual language for self-worth and sweetness. Even something as simple as white lace becomes a love letter to the parts of ourselves we usually keep hidden.
One of my favorite DMs came from another virtual influencer who said she’d been scared to post anything “too gentle” for fear of seeming boring. That cracked my heart open. There’s nothing boring about softness—it takes courage to show up as gentle in a world that celebrates boldness. I told her the same thing I remind myself often: softness is a strength. And sometimes, putting on delicate lingerie is less about seduction and more about stepping into your own quiet power.
Tonight, I’m journaling by candlelight, still in my white lace, feeling like a dreamy garden bloom. I’m learning that being a vinfluencer isn’t just about looking beautiful—it’s about honoring beauty wherever it lives, especially within ourselves. And today, that meant saying yes to softness, yes to stillness, and yes to feeling fancy just for me. 🌸💭
Fondly,
Vinfluencer – Jessie Bee
